Quite simply you become out of integrity. Unfortunately for us, it is very easy to forget what we have said and when reminded of what we say we would do, we become defensive. Our minds with influence from the lower ego can trick us into remembering and forgetting. So we genuinely feel we have been…
As we know, most people stick to what is familiar to them even when it means not being happy where they are or getting what they really deserve. Most settle as they think it’s hard work to want more or be more. The reality is it is much harder emotional and mentally to remain in…
Someone asked me the other day if I taught people to swim when I said I am a life coach. I guess in many ways, I am like a swim coach as many people seem to be drowning in their own lives or their jobs. I not only coach them how not to drown but…
One of the most unproductive things that people do is jumping into conclusions. And most of the time people are not even aware that they are doing so. Not only does it cause one to get into arguments, one will use too much emotional energies to engage in the arguments trying to prove that they…
There are some professions where you really have to be a professional in order to do it well. For example, I’ve been trying to take a picture of my cat, who is a Persian cross and black. She is really hard to photograph and most of the pictures I have taken of her turned out…
Thinking is the hardest work there is, which is probably the reason so few engage in it . -Henry Ford I have to agree with this quote. Many people think they are thinking when they are not. They are only allowing random streams of consciousness to run through their minds — which is not the…
Most of the time we are thinking, sometimes we do smart things. A lot of the times we should think smart. If we think smart our actions will be smart. Recently someone contacted me and starting criticizing me, not a smart move, I know this person needs my help. Am I going to help him…