The world makes us think that there’s something wrong with us if we are afraid.

The truth is when we want to make progress in any areas of our lives be it in our business, personal development, family, relationships, we will be afraid. Fear comes up just as we are about to leave our comfort zone.

Nothing wrong in being afraid. It is what we do about it is what will make a difference.

Do we give in to the fears or move forward in spite of the fears? Too many give up when fear sets in because they think the fear is right.

The other day I helped someone deal with a very difficult situation in their relationship with family.

Made me think of the complexity of personas we all play out in our lives with different people and different situations.

I remember as a child thinking and knowing I have to speak and act differently with different people in different situations. All of us learned this in our childhood.

It just gets too complicated when we become adults because we are no longer just talking about who has a larger candy or who has more marbles. More is at stake.

More of our emotional investment, time, and perhaps money.

If only as adults we know how to call a referee to help us out just as we did as kids.

As a child, any adult made a good referee to help us sort out our differences.

We really need to think simple and ask for help. Then we find that things are not as complicated as we make them out to be.

Late last year I talked about being in transition and in Jan while in transition I shared with you via videos on a weekly basis.

Well I’m now back to regular blogging and sharing and I will continue to share via my videos.

January was an interesting month not just for me but for many people. There’s a sense of newness and also a sense of anticipation. It felt like everyone was waiting for something to happen.

The thing is we cannot wait because we are the ones who have to make things happen the way we envision it.

Let’s make 2012 the best year ever.

How do you tell the difference between a fear thought vs rational thought that may be preventing you from taking action. To download an abundance meditation or for further information please visit Shamala’s websites: www.bespiritualandrich.com / www.shamalatan.com

How To Handle Irritation, Anger when your buttons and pushed and how it affects your ability to receive abundance! For further information please visit Shamala’s websites: www.bespiritualandrich.com / www.shamalatan.com

How to deal with yourself if others do not like you. For further information please visit Shamala’s websites: www.bespiritualandrich.com / www.shamalatan.com